TomTom have a chart showing what cards they suggest for various devices
here.
It has a few inaccuracies and oddities (for example they insist the largest SDHC cards you should use are 4GB, but I've never heard of anyone having problems with a decent quality SDHC card upto 32GB capacity.
It does show the Toyota TNS 410 and it says SDHC are NOT compatible with that model, so you are stuck with using "ordinary" SD cards (SDHC cards *might* work, but will be unreliable).
Ordinary SD cards are usually only available upto 2GB, but there used to be a couple of manufacturers who made a SD-compatible 4GB card,. Try a search on the web for "Topram" or "Transcend", but be careful as you are more likely to be offered their 4GB SDHC ones.
However, I see no reason why you should have to use special TT-supplied cards, the only model that mentions needing them is the "Carminat TomTom"
Hope that goes some way to helping!
P.S. You're right... there isn't a dedicated forum section for the "built-in" devices. Maybe we should create one.